How to find PERFECT partner for you
Love and wild blessings to u!
Everyone wants love and find perfect partner in life, but many people are confused how to find right partner for them or some may be struggling to manage the relationship which they already have.
God didn't give you a choice to decide who will be your father, mother, brother, or grandparent, maybe he doesn't trust your choice. but god has left the decision of choosing the right partner entirely to you, who can fill up all the unmet expectations of yours which can not be met by those around you. the more carefully u choose the better life flows with ease.
But to attract perfect partner in your life u need understand certain belief patterns which governs the flow of love in your life.
We gonna discuss here, all the aspects of having perfect relationship ,healthy love life. And how you can find YOUR perfect partner in life yourself.
With all this said let's jump into the topic and see how you can find your perfect partner in life.
Universal energy gives you what you BE not what you want, hence focus on becoming perfect partner now how can You become that is as follows 🔽
What is love for you!
First let's shift your idea of love. To find perfect and right partner in your life, you must have a clear meaning of love in your mind, having wrong understanding about love people attract wrong people in their life hence struggle with relationships.
Many have idea about love, love for them means going to date, talking all night, praising, being together all the time. NO, if you wanna have right love of your life you need to change you perception about love a bit. If a man loves a woman and wants be with her all the time, he is slave to her, and want her to be slave of him. This is not love this is Attachement and attachment is bondage.
Love means acceptances, acceptance of all that is and all that will be. Being non attached to the behaviors of person or anything outside but loving them for who they are. If your love is for behaviours and anything outside, it's gonna change hence will your love for them also shifts.
We wanna have a higher fulcrum of our love life in order to maintain dynamic balance.
Love yourself first
All love is self love, when you love yourself , u attract love from outside. First be love. For that fall in love with yourself.
Remember universe by law sends you only the people like you, whom ever you attract in your life is just reflection of you. And if you do not love yourself, you are just going to attract a person who do not love himself and hence both get depend on each other for love, if both wants love who will give. And this turns relationship into failur bacuse I expected him to love me but he is asking love from me. And I can't give love because I do not have it. May not having love was the reason to enter in that relationship.This is attachment means enslavement , and love do not come without freedom.
Best way to be in the frequency of love is to love yourself first, love means acceptance, accepting yourself the way you are. Acceptance does not mean giving up, but an non judgemental awareness of all that is there and acting to change it. You can't change a thing which u do not accept.
Hence raise your vibration by loving yourself, fall in love with yourself, be grateful for the body u have , people around you and all that's good in your life , work for those areas which are not so good by taking this energy of thankfulness.
Focus on yourself
Stop searching for the perfect partner, there is no universal standard by which u can measure perfection of a person for being your partner, it's relative. Relative to you.
Universe do not give u what u want it gives u what u are. Be the person you want to attract in your life. Get your attention from searching to being,
In order to attract perfect love for you, u need to love yourself, you need to RESPECT yourself and HONOR yourself.
To marry a king 👑, u need to become queen👸.
We attract what we give off.
remenmber true relationship should be growthfull,both must be able to grow as individual .
If you love yourself, you gonna attract a person who love himself hence you both will not be dependent on each other, not attached and enslaved hence able to grow.
and true love shines only in freedom.
- Work on yourself
- Keep growing
- Keep flourishing
Life gives u only what u are worthy of hence uplift your worth by becoming next best version of yourself and you will attract not only love of right partner but all of those around you.
*Blessings till next read*
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